MindOH!
December 2004

Dear Jennifer,

On behalf of the entire MindOH! team, my sincerest appreciation to all of you who gave us the gift of your time to log onto our Fast Company Magazine Fast 50 application to comment and vote on MindOH! While the Fast 50 winners will be announced in the coming New Year, you've already made us a winner. It's clear to us from all of your wonderful comments that we're still on the right track and that you support our mission to help kids make wiser and healthier decisions.

Many of you shared with Fast Company readers that there is a definite need for our tools to be made available to all children in their homes and schools. We are actively pursuing that initiative as fast as we can! It makes all of the hard work worthwhile when we hear stories like the one from a mother who shared a personal story of how our tools have helped her son get off drugs and begin his journey to finding himself again!

If you have time, here's a link to read more comments.

One thing I am absolutely sure of, with the kindness and support of all of you as friends and family of MindOH!, we will make MindOH! a reality for many, many more kids in 2005!

We wish you and your families a wonderful safe holiday and a prosperous and Happy New Year!

Amy Looper, MindOH! Chief Visionary Officer

In this issue
  • Guest Author: "Is it Just Adolescent Behavior? How to Know if Your Teen is in Trouble and What to Do About It"
  • MindOH! Book Review: "Fires in the Bathroom: Advice for Teachers from High School Students"
  • Funding Corner: The Fund for Teachers
  • Guest Article: "Is It ... Just Another Day? My Birthday"

  • MindOH! Book Review: "Fires in the Bathroom: Advice for Teachers from High School Students"

    Review by Leslie Matula, MindOH! Co-Founder and Nationally Recognized Character Education Expert

    One of the most common complaints we at MindOH! hear from students is that adults don't listen to them. Kids feel that they rarely have the opportunity to tell their side of the story about anything. So it's not surprising that one of the things students like most about our materials is that they are given the opportunity to express themselves in a responsible and respectful way and to be heard as a result.

    Fires in the Bathroom has given a group of high school students a similar opportunity, by allowing them to tell their side of the story about experiences with school, teachers, and their education. There is a great deal of wisdom in the author's stated purpose to "learn from students."

    One of the things I like to tell kids is that we are all teachers, and we are all students. We have a lot to learn from one another. The problem for most of us adults is that being the teacher is a lot more comfortable than sitting in the pupil's seat, but that is exactly the place you need to sit while reading this book, so you can learn a thing or two from these young co-authors.

    As the author points out, we sometimes allow order to trump other important goals. We often place more importance on "keeping the place running smoothly," rather than trying to understand the underlying causes of poor behavior or performance. And while students need to be continually reminded that they must accept responsibility for their choices and that part of becoming successful is learning to deal effectively with the challenges of life, we adults need to be reminded of what Pulitzer Prize-winning author Robert Coles so eloquently stated: "The child is an ever-attentive witness." It is our behavior and our performance that will ultimately shape the lives of those young people we are fortunate enough to raise, teach, and influence.


    Funding Corner: The Fund for Teachers

    Fund for Teachers is a unique foundation whose mission is to enrich the lives of schoolteachers and students by providing recognition and opportunities for renewal to outstanding teachers. Making a difference one teacher at a time, Fund for Teachers awards grants directly to teachers to support professional development opportunities of their own design.

    The Fund for Teachers grants are awarded to teachers who work with students in grades pre- kindergarten (K) through twelve (12) grade.

    Applicants must have a minimum of three years teaching experience and be a fulltime teacher, spending at least 50% of the time in the classroom, at the time grants are approved and made.

    Eligible applicants may apply as an individual or as a team. An individual proposal will consist of one personal data sheet, one project description and a budget sheet. Funding limit is $5,000. A team application will consist of one personal data sheet per team member, one project description and budget sheet. Funding limit up to $7,500 total per team.


    Guest Article: "Is It ... Just Another Day? My Birthday"

    By Tamara J. Hufford-Wong, Lecturer and Co- Author of "Wise Women Speak: Changes Along the Path"

    A few weeks ago I was in Seattle at my mother in-law's birthday party in China Town. Our usual place didn't have room for us, but this new one did. The food wasn't too good, but we were all together and that was what mattered to my mother in-law, May Wong. She uses the Lunar (Chinese) calendar to determine which day is her special day, so the date changes from year to year.

    I was sitting next to my nephew Jeffery who would soon be turning 18 years old in a few short months and I asked him what he was going to do for his special 18th birthday. "Nothin", he replied quite calmly. "Nothing", I said in a shocked voice. "What do you mean, nothing?" "It's your birthday", I said, and "you're turning 18 years old." "That's a big deal", I said. His reply, "no, not really, it's just another day." I felt so sad for him and tried to explain just why it was such a special day. But it did not begin to faze him. He wasn't even excited about his graduation from High School next year.


    Guest Author: "Is it Just Adolescent Behavior? How to Know if Your Teen is in Trouble and What to Do About It"

    By Joyce M. Gayles, Ph.D., Clinical Psychologist and Success Coach

    Adolescence is a time of transformation in multiple ways. Teens face several important developmental tasks, the most significant of which is individuating and forming early adult identity. While there is great diversity in how kids move through this transition, self-consciousness and insecurity, moodiness and emotional outbursts, egocentricity, and rebellious behavior are all normal expressions of this developmental stage.

    The ups and downs of adolescence may be misinterpreted as clinical pathology and conversely actual psychological problems may be missed because they can look quite similar to basic adolescent instability. So, if all of the above are normal, how, then, does one recognize the sources of trouble and signs of a teenager in trouble?

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