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Dear Jennifer,
As the newest parent at MindOH! I am now flooded with thoughts
and fears about being a good parent with hopes and dreams that I
will measure up to my own aspirations, those same fears with which I
am sure you can all relate. Today is a different world from when I
grew up, and I know that same sentiment is exacerbated in the
generations before me.
I just returned from a marriage conference with my wife this past
weekend and I am constantly reminded of the importance of the role I
play as a man, a husband, and a father. The role of a leader, parent
and model of character are the things that stand out to me most.
When you look back on your life, what legacy will you leave? Did you
teach and model the life skills and character that the next
generation will need?
Remember, you are on stage more often than you think. The
everyday actions that you take contain volumes of 'teachable
moments' from which your children are constantly learning. They will
see you as their best, most influential model of the citizen, adult,
spouse, and parent that they become. Are you taking the time to
teach them what they need to know to be successful in life?
Take care of your children and provide them with that foundation
of character on which they can build upon for future generations.
Sincerely,
Brooks Tutor, Director of Customer Support
| Building a Foundation for Success: Teaching Children
Today the Parenting Skills They Will Need in the
Future |
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By Guest Author Janet Pozmantier, Director of the
Parents Under Construction Program at ChildBuilders
It is no secret that law schools, medical schools, MBA
programs, universities, and colleges of every sort are
becoming increasingly more competitive in both their
admissions and their academics. Internships are in similarly
high demand, as it seems many students are striving to get
"hands on" experience before entering the unknown of the "real
world." But even the finest Ivy League education will leave
the majority of today's students frighteningly unprepared for
the most enduring, influential, and significant profession
they will ever have -- parenting.
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| Character Education Expert Column: What's At
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By Guest Author Dr. Marvin Berkowitz, University of
Missouri-St. Louis
For several years, I have written articles with variations
on the theme of urging parents to raise children of character
in their homes, communities and schools. For over a quarter of
a century, I have been studying children's moral and character
development and working with schools, communities, and
families to foster such development.
Why is this so important? You may think that I am a broken
record stuck in my own groove, and becoming annoying by making
a mountain out of a molehill. Every now and then, as I look at
hunger and war around the world, I wonder whether I should
pick up a different banner. After all, those are real issues
with import for everyone. Matters of life and death. Global
issues.
But my doubts are only rare and momentary, as I keep coming
back to the same refrain. It is people who do good and people
who do bad. Wars don't start by themselves. Hatred is not a
natural force. Cruelty is not perpetrated by plants or
minerals. People do these things and they do them in large
part because of their characters.
If we want to live in a moral world, we need to raise moral
children.
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| Announcing the 2005 Character's Cool Contest
Results! |
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The MindOH! Foundation's fourth annual Character's Cool
Contest was a huge success, with 5,502 student survey entries
and 1,134 essay entries from 240 schools in 40 states. The
total estimated value of prizes was more than $12,200, and
included items ranging from a Nintendo Game Club to gift
certificates from Old Navy. With 388 total student entries,
D.A. Smith Middle School in Ozark, Alabama won the
grand prize: a new computer and a one-year license to
MindOH's Discipline and Life Skills Series. With 321
total entries, East Hanover Middle School in East Hanover,
New Jersey won the second-place prize: Project Wisdom's
Character Education Series.
The Character's Cool Contest is an annual program developed
by the MindOH! Foundation to further character education and
empower youth to practice ethical behavior. All secondary
school students (ages 11-18) in the United States and Canada
are eligible to enter.
Open from January 1 to February 11, 2005, this year's
contest theme was bullying. One definition of bullying is
"hurting or teasing others on purpose to try to overpower
them." Thirty percent of students in grades six through 10 in
U.S. public and private schools report moderate or frequent
involvement in bullying either as a bully themselves, a victim
or both. This year's contest strived to help kids understand
the thoughts and emotions that go along with this cruel
phenomenon, and realize how bullies are not always the people
you expect.
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| Culture Corner: Spring in South East Asia |
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By Amy Dow, MindOH! Content Writer
Yay! Spring is just around the corner.
It is a gorgeous day outside in Huntsville, Ontario,
Canada. The sun is shining and the snow is FINALLY beginning
to melt away.
As the spring season approaches many people welcome the
season around the world. In China, April 5th is both a
traditional Chinese festival and a national holiday in Taiwan.
April 5th is known as Tomb Sweeping Day. During this time
family's travel to loved ones burials to sweep off the derby
and dirt and place fresh flowers on their graves.
Taiwan is also home to another great spring festival that
is dedicated to Matsu, Goddess of the Sea and Guardian of the
islands fisherman. This celebration takes place in over 200
temples in Taiwan where Matsu is enshrined. One of the biggest
festivals takes place in one of Taiwan's most extravagant
temples, The Matsu Temple in Peikang.
During this festival there are offerings of roast pig and
boiled chickens. The local people participate in lion and
dragon dancing and other colorful parades. Open air markets
pack the narrow streets around the temple selling everything
imaginable.
The spring is a special time for everyone, no mater what
country you are a part of. Enjoy the new season, because I
know I will.
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